Sunday, August 14, 2016

LOSING THAT SOMEONE SPECIAL

*LOSING THAT SOMEONE SPECIAL* There are no words that will help you. Words are not supposed to make it better. But faith will help. People with deep faith understand that there is much more than what we can see with our eyes or feel in our heart. Faith is something we all have, though many don't believe they do. Faith in that the sun will warm the earth and rise each morning, Faith that the skies will rain and give life to all who live on earth. Faith that the earth will turn, and not stop. AND faith that something special created us, controls our destiny, the world around us, and gives us everything each day to go on living. Faith is believing that the air we breathe will continue to sustain us. AND FAITH that God will give us the strength slowly to accept that there is more than what is here on earth and one day we will surely be reunited with all our love ones. Faith is knowing, deep in our heart that our loved ones are, in fact, watching over us, rooting us on, and feeling our pain. BUT YOU SEE, they have been given the answers to life. THEY, know there is more, and are experiencing what we will earn one day. THEY are the fortunate ones that have GRADUATED first, saving a place for us, and telling us to have FAITH, and that they are well. THEY too know that life on earth is but mere seconds to the eternity THEY have been chosen to GRADUATE too, ahead of the rest of us. CHEER them on, because they are all cheering us on, those we all miss so much. SO, we are not to be given the answers to THIS TEST, only they the ones chosen to graduate first get those answers. SO Celebrate their life. Celebrate their GRADUATION to the above. Try to regain that ever so important FAITH that GOD DOES control it all, and we all get to GRADUATE at the special time when it has been earned. But we are here for a great purpose, which we may not yet fully understand. So live those special MERE seconds carefully".JOHN PAUL CARINCI author

Friday, February 19, 2016

Daily affirmations To Change Your Life Forever

"My Success Affirmations"

Today I am born anew. Today is the most important day of my life because it represents the glorious and first day of my new life.
I now understand that I alone control my destiny, my success or my failure in this wondrous world of opportunity. Am I now capable, too, of greatness and fortune like those highly successful individuals I have learned about? For now I truly understand that I can accomplish anything I carefully program into my mind.

Does not the immigrant cherish fully the American opportunity, knowing they must succeed and that failure is not an option in their newfound world? I will adopt a similar burning desire, and I will excel.

I am born anew. For now I realize that I am the greatest miracle in the world, unique to anyone ever born. No longer will I count the obstacles and drawbacks in my life. I now realize that, like the inventor who welcomes each new failure on the road to victory, so, too, shall I. For now I understand that each failure only brings me closer to the success I know will be mine.

Never again will I allow self-pity, doubt, or negativity to penetrate my new power-mind, protected by a new negativity-shield, for now I realize that 80 percent of all talk and actions around me will be negative. I now realize that negativity has been around since the caveman, and yet successful people always prevailed. I, too, shall prevail. I, too, will stand out from the crowd. I am a king and the world is my new kingdom, for now I realize that the knowledge I possess is worth more than all the riches of the world.

Today I possess an immense knowledge of how to change my life forever.
It is a true celebration indeed because now I realize that the best is yet to be.
Just like the wind that graces the earth, never will I look back. Never will I revisit yesterday’s problems and heartaches. They are dead. I will always look forward with a newfound, childlike excitement and energy.

Never again will I allow my life to be likened to a casino game of chance because I now understand that I alone take full responsibility for my results along the long road to success, and I vow to apply the principles I have learned along the way. It is a joy to travel the long road to success. I will savor every step, enjoying the rough as well as the easy road I encounter.

Today and everyday forward I will welcome each new day as a blessing from above, and I vow never again to squander such a precious gift, knowing that the richest king can never buy one more day of life. It is truly a gift from the Creator and shall never again be wasted.

Enthusiasm, I have learned, is contagious. And I know that if I project an enthusiastic, positive attitude to all whom I encounter each day, they, too, will be enthused and will spread it to others. And like all wealth shared with love, it no doubt will inspire me all the more.

I realize that I have choices in life:
I can feel happy, or I can feel sad.
I can act positive, or I can act in a negative manner.
I can succeed greatly, or I can settle for failure as an end result.
I can love all others I encounter, or carry around baggage of doom and gloom and aversion.
I choose to be different, to stand out and set an example that others will admire and want to emulate.

This is my new life. I am like a newborn, pure in heart and mind from prejudice, hatred, failure, or fear. And like a newborn, full of life and hope, I now understand that I, too, am unspoiled now in my mind. I now possess the great knowledge of the ages. For now I know that the mind controls the body, and the subconscious controls the conscious. As long as I feed the subconscious mind good, pure, and positive thoughts, the subconscious will radiate like the rays of the sun, thus renewing, invigorating, and warming me each day like the powerful rays of the sun. For this little-known secret of my subconscious is now part of my life, part of my daily routine. And with each new day that I take a breath of air, I, too, will begin it with positive self-suggestion statements.

My newfound positive-attitude shield will protect me from the arrows of negativity that kill off the spirit and drive off so many other people. I am different; I am new. I will apply the newfound knowledge I possess.

No longer will that negativity seep into my mind. I will not allow negativity to affect the computer-mind God gave me. I was born to be great.

Greatness is my destiny.

From this day forward I will never again worry, for now I know that 92 percent of all worry is useless, self-defeating, and draining.

Like the seasons that change, I now understand that my emotions, too, change, and though I may not feel as happy one day, I know that in a day or two I could possibly be ecstatic. Like the cycles of the world, emotions change, and now my newfound knowledge is power I will be able to use.

With love in my eyes and heart, I will greet everyone I meet with sincere kindness. For now I understand that love alone will soften the coldest hearts of enemies and friends alike. And if I am to help others along the road to success, I must set an example of pure love and inspiration for all to follow.

My new attitude will be my shield that will protect me from the dreaded arrows of negativity that kill off the spirit and drive off so many others. I am now different; I am new; I am driven.

And as someone who loves himself, I now vow to allow only good things to enter my mind and body, and to eliminate anything harmful from affecting me. I will ignore the surrounding negativity and indulgences that can harm this masterpiece-body that I have been born with. I now know that I am the greatest work of art in the world, a masterpiece that no money can ever duplicate.

I now vow that each new day will be carefully unwrapped and savored for the precious gift it represents. And in the end, I will know that I have made my Creator proud of what I have accomplished, and I will be able to look back, knowing that I have set a truly inspiring example and have made a lasting, positive difference in this great world of ours.

C-2010 John Paul Carinci from the book An All-Consuming Desire To Succeed
Self Help Books By John Paul Carinci

Saturday, February 6, 2016

“The Power of Being Different”
Uniqueness to me means standing out from the crowd and being different. To be different means much more than merely looking or acting different at certain times. It means standing up and being your own person, not just in style but in business, in life, in everyday actions.
We live in a society where most people want to follow the follower. One person comes up with a new idea, and everyone suddenly has to fall in line and follow the new and latest trend. Tattoos are a great example. People had been getting tattoos for many decades. Usually the tattoos were
popular with servicemen who went to war. They would get a tattoo to show their love for their family or love interest. The tattoos for the most part were simple and not too elaborate.
But now, suddenly, like the latest trend, everyone desires tattoos, but not just a simple tattoo. Many individuals have tattoos covering entire arms, legs, faces, backs, etc. Why?
Well they want to be part of the latest trend and fit in. Once again, follow the follower. Never once thinking that the large area tattoos are very difficult to remove if they ever change
their mind about being someone else’s billboard.
“Would you like me to give you a formula for success?
It’s quite simple, really. Double your rate of failure. You
are thinking of failure as the enemy of success. But it
isn’t at all. You can be discouraged by failure or you can
learn from it. So go ahead and make mistakes. Make all
you can. Because remember, that’s where you will find
success.”
—Thomas J. Watson
We were each born into this world destined for greatness. Maybe our upbringing taught us to take few risks along the way, and go the route that has already been forged for us. In my studies of inventors I see that inventors are very unique. They are risk takers; they are unfazed by failure. The
inventor realizes that failures must be plentiful before any real breakthrough in their new invention or idea is achieved.
The real key to success for an inventor is not being thrown by all the numerous failures they are presented with, but rather keeping their eyes fixed firmly on the finish line. And the finish line is always the final successful working invention or idea. An author is much the same as an inventor, because to write a full manuscript it takes the average writer a few years.
And all along those many months there are many doubts and problems that will present themselves to the writer. But the burning desire to finish an acceptable manuscript, the finish
line, is what drives the writer onward. The obstacles that present themselves to the writer are dealt with. They don’t throw the writer, because the prize is the motivator, and the
prize is always at the finish line, just like the inventor.
I recently observed at the local mall a large flock of geese. They always seem to rest on the grass of the mall parking area. On this particular occasion I wanted to get close up
and study them. They are huge. I learned that they can grow as big as 40 inches and weigh as much as 15 pounds. As I studied them there must have been a hundred hanging out
on the grass. I moved in real close and they were unfazed.
I realized that people were much like the geese; they follow one another behind some kind of leader. The geese at this mall usually graze in one section at a time. And when the leader takes off, they all follow to some other area. Never ever did I see one goose or even two by themselves.
Rather they were always all grouped together.
Do you dare to stand up, stand out, and be different, even for an extended period of time? Be like that inventor who must travel down a lonely risk-filled road in order to achieve greatness. Greatness comes to those who dare to be different, those who are not afraid to be made fun of in
order to follow their own dreams. What is your dream? Is it writing a book? Higher Education? Landing a new job?
Do you want to relocate to a different state or country? It will take a real commitment to achieve a new goal. But, like writing a book from scratch, you must keep your eyes focused on the finish line and not on all the obstacles that will surely arise along the long and bumpy road to success.
“The average person puts only 25% of his energy
and ability into his work. The world takes off its hat to
those who put in more than 50% of their capacity, and
stands on its head for those few and far-between souls
who devote 100%.”
--Andrew Carnegie
C-2016 J. Carinci From the self help book “THE POWER OF BEING DIFFERENTTHE POWER OF BEING DIFFERENT (self help book of the century)